Has your wife always been a housewife while living in the States? I'm not living in the US. She's been the residence administrator since we got married.
What are you working on now (as in "you can only change yourself")? - Fixing my oft malfunctioning Venusian translator. - Becoming a better listener. - Flipping her attraction switches. - Triggering her LL's
What do you see as your personal goals in your sitch? Good question. The answer after THE BOMB would have been to win her back. Now? I have doubts, just like she has. As I said before... it's complicated.
When it comes to my life I don't make hasty decisions. I 'educate' myself, evaluate all possible scenarios and plan accordingly. Out of ignorance I made the standard errors on BOMB day.
Since then I managed to detach and have entered an introspective phase. I'm drawing up my own 'list of demands' i.e. what I want, need and expect from this R. In the meantime I'm gradually implementing her list of demands (aka spew). Not specifically for Mrs Gno, but because they will help me in a future R with whoever it may be.[/color]
Thank you for opening this thread. Thank you for reading.
I have a lot to ask and share. I'd like to think I have a lot to share and you're free to ask. Keep in mind, I don't have the answers to everything and I make mistakes.
since we got married.
