#1 Dignity. AFG ~ Whatever you decide to do, you'll remember those moments for the rest of your life and you want to be proud of yourself for being a dignified and strong woman.

#2 If I were in your shoes, AFG...I would knock on that door, open it, bust 'em and tell them both they have five minutes to get out, the clock is ticking. Close the door, go downstairs, have your coffee.

That's a start.
Sorry, AFG. This is just about the worst thing I've ever read happening to someone on these boards. Wish I could punch him for you.

Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.