And there are another 2 things why he says he will never reconcile again.
1. When he dated OW2 I logged into his skype account(I always had his login) to get my proof(what else was I supposed to do - he continued to lie) - remember he said she was only a potential tenant (yeah right). He says now he lied but i am deceitful - meaning when I point the finger at him - 4 fingers are pointing back towards me.
2. And now the big thing he will never get over and I feel guilty for it - I posted from day one in April on a relationship website in Ireland - kinda like a journal and I had 96.000 hits - it wasn't 96.000 people, just the same girls reading and supporting me over 4 long months - anyway - it's an anonymous forum like this one - around the same time OW2 and WS ended their affair and we tried to reconcile one of the posters started to send me IM's and we posted for weeks back and forward - she even gave me her name and her facebook login and everything - and so did I(stupid me) - I think at the start she wanted to help me and befriended WH on facebook - without asking me by the way - but then she started chatting to him and revealed not only that we knew each other but how we met - and one day in August he rang me and just blew up - he had read most of the posts.
He says now I have shown my true colours and he will never reconcile.
Anyway I recently got the passsword to his general email account back and there was an email in it to one of his mates telling him that she offered him phone sex – and in September he had a mobile phone bill of $1500 – I guess he took her up on that offer.
