Happens way to often in your world. These conversations need to stop and you need to teach your kids to deal with their mom and that relationship that they have with her. You seem to care way to much about what is going on in her world and allow the kids relationship with their mom to become a substitute for your own relationship with her.
I hadn't really thought of it that way but I can see how it's a 'relationship by proxy'. Still too codependent and I need to ACCEPT that this is over.
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Don't you want to quit caring about all that nonsense at this point?
