But that's the problem I have - if an affair was the reason for our separation should the PI not have found him with OW1? OW2 only came into the picture after our split and I don't think she was the reason at all.
I am so sure he already cheated in April and we only separated in June - and I am so sure it was not OW2 in April - so what the heck happened to OW1? I was devastated when the PI found OW2 because from that moment on nothing made sense anymore.
I am sorry I am going on and on about this - it does my head in it really does
