WOW I was reading through this post and I have to say there are def. both sides here... I cant say I would take W back ever.. at first I wanted to so very much and she knew it. but to tell you the truth I would rather not see her or even hear from her again! yes as you see there is A LOT of hurt still (and i will admit I love her as much as I hate the thought of her) and the kids are so crushed!
they just want mom back home. frown And I know she was not in her right mind but she still is not, she still lies and lies and I dont see her ever becoming a mom again much less a W for any man.
even if she was the same person I first married I just cant see letting her back any more than living in the same zip code and co-parenting.
I would rather just find a woman who well is a woman and not a trashy back stabbing ......... I would NEVER trust her again


I guess this sounds more like a rant then a good point of view but I have to say had she just had an affair and we worked it out then in all honesty yeah reluctantly I would have taken her back.. a bit distrusting but I would have worked with it until we had a trust true love again.

some times they just kill any chance

I do have to say IMOP most people dont like change and guys are def. no exception! and familarity is what we want so.....

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