To top it all off he was on shift last night and drove by the house at three am and saw lights on so he came in to see what was going on and I was getting ready for bed. He asked why I was up at that time of night and I told him I went out to the bar. He got mad, called me a barstar and walked out and went back to work. So H can have ties to OW, but I am not even allowed to go to the bar?

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14