I havent' said anything negative to H lately....I've totally been reliving it in my OWN head....things that are tough...I don't tell him...I spare him, his feelings, etc...I did do that in the past and you are dead on....but I have not done that lately...I let him do whatever he wants...I never question, ask or anything...it's weird but what you said about his mom is Dead on....I love her but she has always been very controlling...H doesnt visit her much...took him a month to take her her bday card...
His dad says nothing...he sits back and lets his mom talk and yell and whatever else...H would always kind of hold it in but he did tell me he hated how his dad just took it all...
Thanks I understand more now....
Can you be in a depression and appear to be normal?
Last edited by Treese; 12/06/0904:01 PM.
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
