Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

I think the A has lasted since probably Feb. before he moved out.

I just replied to H that C was not scheduled. Nothing else about it. He just replied ok. He then mentioned he was sick with a cold he got from his last business trip and asked how I did in my half marathon. I find it a change for him to be adding personal info and asking me personal things. I'm not trying to read much into it, just find it curious. I'm so tired of being hurt.

WAH also picked up the kids for the afternoon. I wasn't home when he came and sent him a TM that I was getting home around 9:30pm because he was keeping them till 8:30. Still dropped them off around 8:30. He asked the kids where I was. They also said he was criticizing me to them but they told him to cut it out.

I was out with my girlfriends to a Xmas tree farm and then shopping and out to dinner. Had a wonderful time. Just hoping to detach and be busy. It helps.

I still haven't been able to confront about the A; I only let him know by email that I know. This sitch is so weird. No apology, no remorse, no acknowledgement. Only distance.