Hi Treese,
I'd be nervous too. Do you know some other parents/friends you can sit with? Can you have a plan to meet up with son after the game somewhere so you don't have to run into our H unless its on your terms? Just thinking about logistics with a plan of action might take away some of the stress.

Just put you best face on, act "as if" you are calm, collected and unaffected even if you don't feel that way. Breathe! Treat H like a neighbor/friend you haven't seen in awhile..If OW is there, treat her lke a stranger..friendly/detached...

You'll be fine! And enjoy watching your son play basketball! That's the whole reason you'll be there so focus on him. And have fun watching him!!

Last edited by kjensen; 12/06/09 02:57 PM.

M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.