How do you bust A. My W is hanging with her friends. Most seem to support her. I do not know what they are telling her but seem to be "get out and do your own thingy". Her family and her friends are not talking to me or excepting any communication at this point.
I think is is because of the interracial relationship.
Her PA is a bit younger than my W. My W, in the past few weeks has moved from EA to PA and OM is hanging with my W and her friends... these same people that once did things with W and I now do them with W and OM. I found that my wife is taking OM to nieces birthday party tomorrow and her family will be there.
If wife and I do get back together, how do I handle family and friends who seemingly are willing to accept this ?
I am having a hard time setting boundaries... my W is still telling me she does not know yet what she wants to do, come home or MC. We seem to get along fine when we briefly see each other, and I always stay in a positive mood. This seems to bother her.
Yesterday when she told me about the PA, I did tell her that she was wrong and needed to stop that. She said she wished I would see someone. I told her that I choose our M, that I would not do that as it would not be right, and that I choose to remain faithful to God and our marriage vows.
I am afraid that if I place boundaries right now, she will run since apparently, she has so much support from family and friends.
HELP!!!
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
