Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

bluerain, I would contact your closest JAG for that info, I am not qualified to really give you an answer, and I would feel awful if I gave you the WRONG answer.
Watcher, PI is tonight. I had to pick 2 nights-due to money. She just sent me an e-mail 9:30 at night telling me she was going to the store, she did that because she thinks I am keeping tabs on her-so we'll see. Ya, she has already told 3 lies about last night-including to her B. She also threatened me about contacting her job. Now when I contacted her job, all I did was ask if there was a certain event last night, or tonight-no mention of my W name, just a general inquiry. Haven't heard from S12, but that is because she took his cell away. I know he feels bad, being in the middle of all this. S15, is indifferent to the whole thing. He thinks it is great that M goes out-that way he is in charge of house and can do whatever he wants to. There are NO rules at my house right now, and that breaks my heart. Also, S15, has ignored some of the things I have asked him to do around the house. I have set a boundary, but he is almost acting the same way as his M. I will square that away when I get back next week. Anyone have any suggestions on where I go from here? I am calm now, and have gotten over the intiial blast wave from last night, but I still feel for my boys. Thanks.