I too wonder if they think about that kind of stuff. But in my own case, I don't think if phases my H at all. S3 could ask him 50 times if he is staying home tonight and sleeping here (since he moved home), and it breaks my heart to think that a three year old has to think about this stuff but I honestly don't think it phases him at all.

I'm glad you have somebody to vent to. It always helps to have someone to talk to when going through something like this. I know for myself, after i talk to somebody I feel so much better. It almost brightens my day.

Also wanted to comment on your three thankful notes you make. I love it! Good for you for looking at the bright side of things and thinking about what you have not what you don't have. It tend to do that too often. So good on ya!


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14