Thanks for a great reply. This is a new direction for me, and what you've said makes a lot of sense.
I used your advice today. No D talk, and I avoided it when W was leading towards it. I also get what you are saying about the money and the kids. I've added the "as if" to the little tip sheet I keep in my wallet.
Hopefully, I can actually start DOING the things I know I should be. I'm seem to feel calmer and able think clearer.
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