Okay, let me be more clear on the "homemaker" subject. My wife (and I) keep the place sanitary, not really a problem there....but I've always thought homemaker kind of meant that part of the "job" was to try to create a home environmaent that is inviting, relaxing, soothing, etc... kind of a refuge for the residents to forget about their work once home. Maybe I'm way off base on that assumption (and granted, it should be a joint effort by both spouses).
It's just that most other married couples I have knowledge about, the wives seem to put quite some effort into making their homes as cozy as possible. My wife doesn't seem to care about such things very much.
Also, as far as the tiredness....I get it, but c'mon....doesn't she think that I'll miss having sex? Shouldn't she be working on some alternative method of keeping our sex lives active? I've done my part, but I have to admit that after a while it doesn't seem worth it to even try to initiate it. Especially when lately she seems to be almost always doing something that is not a turn-on...whether clothing, hair, attitude, etc....
Again, do women realize that they're being like this? Do they have any inkling that behavior like this could be why so many men end up in extra-marital affairs?
