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bluerain makes a good point, won't your PI have the details on her activities that night? It is better to keep your cool, even if you don't want to stay married. A level head will get you further and be more devastating to her(if that is what you decide)in the long run.

And the answer is yes to the "have you seen the W leaving the kids alone before", but no to the endangerment of someone else's child. The WAS can justify just about any action to keep their fantasy going. But I think this is a serious breech of trust in just about anyones book.

Keep your cool and be ready for her, I believe you just got the upper hand!