Hope and heartache

[awest1217]

Mishka is right. You did that stuff because you wanted her to see it and get jealous just like you got jealous when you read the facebook stuff between her and the old crush. Are you trying to push her away? DBing is not about manipulating to get your way. I think you really need to sit down and re-evaluate your motivations and behaviors. It really looks like lately you are out for revenge and that is very not DB. DB is first about letting go of blame. NO MORE BLAMING! Second you need to stop R talks, which you have done well. Third, any interactions with W need to be positive and always upbeat. Lastly GAL, which does not mean going out so you are never alone. You need to learn to be alone with yourself and not busy. You need to learn to be ok with just you. Once you do those things you will become happier.

Sorry for being so harsh, but you really should not set up W. It really seems like you are trying to get her back, which is not good.

With her calling you and letting you have the girls on Christmas Eve, she really is trying to keep you a part of their lives and that is a good thing. She is cooperating with you to see the girls a lot. Also the every Wednesday night thing could very well be counseling or even group counseling, which is a positive. Lastly, as you keep saying, you have no papers and no D talk in a month so you should start counting your blessings.