That is real progress. Keep doing what works and stop doing what doesn't. The more my W got depressed the more I let it affect my mood. So then we had two unhappy people living with each other.
The big thing I've learned is I can't make her happy. I can't reach into her head and flip a happy switch. Only she can do that.
You can try to help -- if she asks for it -- or you can try to be happy with yourself and let her figure out how to be happy with herself.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
