Frank, Maybe I am a bit late with this question but I am going to ask it anyway. I know that infidelity is not a reason for Divorce in new York, but have you made it clear to the judge that you filed because the infidelity kept occurring? I am wondering if they are viewing you in this way because you were the one to file.
As far as the GAL goes, just keep being a stand up guy and let your wifes actions in front of her speak for themselves. I would not however hesitate to point it out. If she is being a bitch to you in front of the lawyers, let her now just as you would at home that you will not stand for it and she needs to be respectful. Slide it in there that she cannot speak to you like she does in front of your kids. Get your shots in and make them count.
