Been thinking. Still think my current strategy is the best so far. But I envisioned telling OM’s spouse about the A – showing her the cell bills. She’s going to be devastated.
Do I really want to do this to her right before Christmas? I thought going through an S was hard. When I found out about the A, I experienced a whole new level of pain that I didn’t know was possible.
Maybe I should let her enjoy her Christmas and approach her after? I can keep up the friendly/clueless act at the gym for a few weeks. Maybe gather some more intel. Unless something drastic happens, the A will still be going on after Christmas.
I know, I know, I’m a softie. Always have been.
Last edited by Norm914; 12/05/0911:39 PM.
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
