The girl that has been flirting with me wants to go out for a coffee one night. She is really nice, we have common interests and she is easy to talk to. She is in a similar position to me, but she is the WAS. She walked away 3 years ago and her ex did all the things everyone on here is saying not to do. Pursuing , begging etc and she said it pushed her further away.
I guess I'm in 2 minds about going. I sort of feel like I'd be cheating, but if my W doesn't change her mind, I don't want to miss the opportunity of getting to know someone better.
Also, I'm not sure what impact it will have on my M and my W. I went out last night with one of my W's cousins ( who I get on better with than what she does) and he still can't believe what is happening. His whole family is shocked.
At this stage I see no progress with my W and I know it's only been a short time.
