Things went great this thurs/friday. He stayed thurs and fri nite and we had a great time in all ways. Very relaxed. He had telephone divorcebusting consult on Friday and I overheard him at party for friend's son graduation that night talking that we were working on the marriage. He hasnt said anything directly to me but I get a strong feeling he is leaning just a little towards our family and away from OW. Not getting my hopes up too high but a little optimistic. Now, I need to decide if I should ask him to dinner this Thursday again as we both have Fridays off. I also have the opportunity to get some cheap tickets through my hospital job to his favorite professional football team game and wonder if I should ask him if he would like me t get the tickets--he probably will take one of his guy friends but his love language is little acts of service so this might touch him. I am thinking if I make it a casual statement that I could get the tickets he wont get scared away. He accepted the massage I set up for him over thanksgiving while daughter went for facial at same spa and they bonded. Thanked me afterward. I need to balance slow and steady with keeping myself in the picture so the OW isnt the only one he sees this week.
Funny, but my attitude is so much better.I am not getting my hopes up but I am not depressed or sad. Feel stronger than I have in a long time. I think my son's big outburst did some real good.
Any suggestions from posters on how to handle the beginning stages of trying to work on getting back together?
