I think gucci has the right idea.

Look at it this way: you can tiptoe around, jump at shadows, and spend your days and nights worrying about what he's going to do...

...or you can tell him what you are going to do, and let him react for a change.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."