Still in the tunnel with hubby

[addie]

I agree with what your DB coach is saying. It's a hard decision though - doing what's best for your D's by having them spend time with their dad in your home or allowing H to feel the full impact of his choices. Since your H is all set on filing for D, I would lean towards the latter. Don't try to shelter him from the choices he's made. Allow him to see just how difficult it will be. You will have to set boundaries.