They say this to comfort you, but we all have things about our friends' spouses or partners that we don't like but don't tell them...so don't take what they say as anything significant (IMO).

Good to know she isn't acting happy though!!!!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004