I posted the update on my sitch in a "Going Dark" section. My W is the classic WAS. She has been unhappy for a long time, tried to get me/us to goto counseling over the years, I didn't listen, she continued to plea, I didn't listen, she gave up 2 years ago, left me during the summer. Our marriage was "over" 2 days after she left, I realized 2 mths later than I needed to move on. I worked on myself, read books, goto counseling, etc. Then this week we talked and a money wrench was thrown back into the situation. More info at this thread.
