He said to me yesterday if we ever have a conversation like this agin he will cut me out of the account.Or better he won't lodge money into it anymore.He thinks I am completely depending on him financially but that will change soon.
More childish threats. He needs to man up and remember he has two kids to take care of regardless of who he is 'with'. He stops paying the mortgage and your boys and you (and him) are homeless. Well done daddy.
My advice at this stage is so see legal advice. You don't need to tell him you're doing it. You don't need to do anything about it. You are protecting yourself to find out what is what. I did this early on and it has put me in good stead.
If you don't do that then I'd suggest you get Super Nanny in and find a comfortable place for the 'naughty spot' as he is going to be there quite a lot I think.
Last edited by P17; 12/05/0907:59 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
