Need some advice on a couple things from more experienced people. I've gone dark. I don't initiate any contact unless related to the kids. I don't linger at drop offs or pick ups. Actually that is one of the questions I have. I really don't speak to her at all. As I said we were in mediation. The last session on a break we were walking down the hall and she said "this might sound weird, I need a hug" I'm like why? Her - Because it seems like you are mad at me and hate me. I said oh and kept walking.
Does my almost silence around her create this feeling of hers. I know it could be my look. I'm not a great actor and struggle with being "happy" around her. I use level tones when I speak, etc.
But she doesn't call, text, or e-mail unless it is about our child. Anyone else seen this?
