Originally Posted By: cutterbug
Also remember. People will be honest with you about things they did not like about your wife since they see you two as being seperate now.

Just listen and later reflect on those comments.


That I have noticed. Everything people have told me about W, since the split, has been, without question, negative! Having your friends tell you they never liked her was a little strange ...


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"