I agreed and suggested she initiate due to her busy schedule.
You need to lead on the going out. Sounds like one of her LLs might be QT.
Is your wife going along with your boundaries?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
