I am just worried what he is telling other people - after the first set of nasty messages from him 2 days ago about the mortgage I texted him yesterday if he knew when hee would be home for X-Mas(that was before the phone call) - I nearly fell off my chair when I read it: "I don't know I should have been ome next week but you seem intent on keeping me away so maybe I can't get home for X-Mas either." So I sent a reply back totally shocked:"You can't be serious" And that's the reply I got: " I am really afraid it's you not being serious. You took money that was not yours without asking and I am not serious.You really need to get a grip."
I then called him as I had enough...
Who is this man? I am afraid he will tell his family now that I am keeping him away from our boys - i just don't know what to do - I can't go NC with him yet as I still need his email password to proof his infidelity and I need him in the house for that over X-Mas so he can use my laptop. This is nothing like my husband or maybe I must have been blind for 9 years or maybe he is a good actor and this is his real character, I don't know.
