I'm amdending your quote...

Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
a woman doesn't let go of a firm, stable vine, to fall into the dark, deep unknown abyss of the jungle, unless SHE THINKS she has another firm/steady vine waiting to hold her.


My W reached out for a very frayyed unstable vine that certainly looked appealing to her at the time! Now she's in that abbyss. Chances are if your wife is having an A she has no idea what kind of realistic future really awaits her.

That business about your son's sleepover really makes me angry. I'm not a parent but I would hope there's something you can do about this.


Age: 28
Wife's Age: 28
Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off)
Married: Less than one year
Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011