Oh thanks Bunny, it should be a nice day, if only Hus would quit pursuing. I'm glad S19 was able to visit. And I really do understand how hard all of this is on teenagers. You sound like you are doing ok. Tonight may be a test, just have a plan to get out of there if it gets overwhelming. My biggest mistakes: Isolating myself / allowing toxic friends back in after I fired them. Too much wine / drunk email (only happened one night)
So, by moving out, is that a semi no-contact? Is your eventual goal to be reconciled? What is best for Bunny and her little bunny?
Your friends are here to support you, because no one knows your sitch better than you.