addie, close friend are telling me "get ovet this, stoo asking about the A, her, forget it etc". And I try.But it's not healthy, it eats me up inside. It's something I NEED. Remember, I know all sorts of details. I need his take on how things happened. And that is a not controlling, it is setting boundaries. I need these things to be able to move on. One blind leading the other blinds, still, I would advise you, to think of explaining things to your H. Give him the "not just friends book" to read. I wish H could read it!
Solid love John, means, no doubts. Spending Christmas with the someone you know loves me and I love him back.
