I haven’t posted in quite some time, I wanted to stop in and say hello, post some updates
I know some of you have moved over to Surviving the Big D from infidelity, I don’t know where to post, I’m also surviving the Big D, and went through the infidelity that ended my M, I guess it doesn’t matter.
I’m staying very busy with the 4 kids, nothing much has changed, I have the kids 26 out of 30 days a month. I have completed several projects, Front and Dinning room remodeling, We are getting ready for Christmas, and trying not to break the bank, I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving, and I wanted to wish everyone here a Merry Christmas. The kids decorated the tree and have been very good. One of the twins last week needed 5 stitches, she was jumping from bed to bed being a kid and hit the dresser drawer on the landing, oh well better luck next time kid.
I started writing stuff about ex but that realy doesn’t matter, everyone here has issues with S or Ex, my situation is nothing special you can read my past post to see what type of person she is. There is one thing about her that made me laugh, rumor has it that she is engaged to OM and she has been seen wearing an engagement ring. I haven’t noticed, and I still haven’t meet OM, but I need to meet this guy and offer him my condolences.
What a pair they will make, I don’t see how they will be able to trust each other, he is D and was going out with a married woman (my Ex) and she was cheating on her husband.
Wow, ten months after D and Ex-W is already getting married. Life moves on and and I need to also, its difficult being a very shy person with little or no time to get out there and mingle, I did go to a Church Orintated Social Activity with a friend, who happenes to be a girl, she is very nice but she is D also and her ex is always around (she says they’re good friends – little weird for me) but it was fun to get out, I was the perfect gentleman as always and it’s a good start.
Line from Marshall Tucker Song “Can’t You See”
Can't you see, Lord, Can't you see, what that woman she been doing to me. Can't you see, can't you see, what that woman, she been doing to me
I confide in God, that I’m confused, I hope He can see what I’ve been through, but according to the Catholic church I’m still married, so If I do something, I’m committing a sin, Very confusing, if I pay $ to get an annulment all is ok, why does this matter to God when he should know what I’ve been through and how hard I tried to keep the M together.
I’ve kept you in my thoughts and prayers WDID, Puppy, kat, Cat, Karen, H4H, Sara, MC and lwb.
I'm still drawn to this site to see how everyone is doing
M46 WAW 42 M10.75 years D10, D8, D8, S7 OM confirmed 12/07 merry Christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 D final 02/10/09 WAW engaged 11/09
