addie, I think it is ot outmost importance to ask what you need or you will end stuck for much longer than you should. Same goes for me, I know it in my gut. Some things need to put to rest before I go on. And we need MC as well. I hat ethe idea of another Christmas with no "solid" love, if you get what I mean... K
PS Any news on Stella? I've been thinking of her.
K, I've asked. H is very passive-aggressive and an avoider of conflict. He too, like many WAS, would prefer to sweep everything under the rug. He's been tender and the physical intimacy is there. The lack of transparency and the secretiveness are major triggers for me. Maybe I'm expecting too much too soon.
No, I haven't heard from Stella and have been wondering about her also. I hope she gives us an update.
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