Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Thanks Watcher, I am standing by for any and all advice/suggestions on how to deal with my W. I find the hardest part of all this, is to accept the fact that she doesn't want me anymore. I sometimes feel that because I am "out of sight, out of mind", that this is so much easier on her, than some of the other sitch's on here. I dunno, I firmly believe there is "someone" that she is confiding/talking to about all of this. My sitch is unfolding just like all the others. I read somewhere that a woman doesn't let go of a firm, stable vine, to fall into the dark, deep unknown abyss of the jungle, unless she has another firm/steady vine waiting to hold her. It is going to be extremely difficult to hear/see that she is having an A, but I am trying to prepare myself for it the best I can-if that is even possible. Thanks again.