Maybe you should get in touch with Hope for Us. He is now on the piecing forum. His wife cheated and he has been dealing with getting their marriage back on track for about 2 years. So far so good. He might have some insight as far as what your H is going through from what he has learned. Just a thought.
Thinking of you. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory