Plan B is not about WAS making a decision. It is not that at all. People who enter Plan B need to enter it thinking the marriage is over and that they need to grieve that loss. Its about healing and getting back some self respect. Its about coming to grips with the betrayal of your life , marriage , past , present and future. Its about removing yourself from the mental abuse of the adultery. Protecting your family. Protecting yourself.
Plan B is also about keeping that last little love you have left for WAS tucked away somewhere in your heart. For one day you may need it. Again I say may need it. Because you still need to live your life. Plan B gives you this chance to heal and grow. Paitence is what is required during this stage of healing.
