Chel, I've very sorry to read that he's still pushing ahead w/his fantasy plans. As far as taking him to the airport, I wouldn't do it. He wants to set forth on his journey, he will ring up and arrange for a cab to pick him up. Why put yourself through the emotional gut wrenching trip? You are a wonderful person and you should not have to taxi him to the airport. He's a grown man, made some very stupid decisions and it's time to let this birdie fly away from the nest to test life outside his nest.
Chel, as for his things, many of them will not take all of their belongings w/them. They are reminders of the life that they've left behind. I would pack them up and put them in the basement or storage area. You do not need to have those reminders in your face every day. If, at some point in time you move, you will need to decide then whether to keep them, sell them or just plain donate them. From what I've seen and experienced, they will only come back for those items that they truly think they will need and in some isntances, the items aren't needed at all, but just an excuse to touch base and keep you off balance.
Wish him the best and wave to him from the window on the 9th. Allow the cab driver to get him to the airport. On that day, do something special for yourself. You are not alone...you have family, friends, bb members and your kitty. Come here to chat, we will be here for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
