Sandi gave me another I idea. I could contact OM’s wife privately and present the cell phone bills. There is NO WAY a wife could look at those bills and not KNOW there is an A going on. I don’t have the money to hire a P.I., but she does. Of course, there is the risk that in a knee-jerk reaction she will confront OM with bills. Never met her so I know nothing about her personality.
Or, rather than just verbally confront OM, I could just smile and hand him a copy of the phone bills (phone calls highlighted to make it easy for him) and say, “Thought your wife might also be interested so I mailed a copy to her office”. Finding out where she works would be an easy piece of intel to acquire. Again, she might just confront him with the bills, and of course he’ll deny any wrongdoing. But it might just set her, with all her money, on his trail.
As I wrote earlier, it’s no wonder that W changed the password to our online account and then stalled and lied when I asked for it. It looks that bad.
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
