Hi Oz, Julia and Gardener...Good to hear from you all. I'm on holidays...it's a wonderful feeling! Going to the oncologist Mon and the surgeon Tues so once those visits are done I will feel fantastic.

I bought my new outdoor setting and bbq today...yay!

I haven't been in contact with H for 2 weeks but he has sent me a couple of emails...all helpful like a friend would do. This is new. Weird! His emails to date have been just straight to the point matters re business or kids.

First an enquiry about Christmas and thanks when I gave the answer

Then an email about an upcoming concert he thought I would like

Then an offer to collect an old filing cabinet I wanted to get rid of

Today one of those emails about people who try to 'carjack.' They've floated around for ages and he's never ever sent that sort of thing to me before but he sent this on to to his sister, his Mum, S and me.

Don't know what it means but it is new behaviour. Whatever it is, I am staying out of touch and concentrating on me.