Bbj, many many steps ahead? You are kidding right? I am walking on a fine line between month #3 and month #19 ( I think). Good to see you having fun!
addie, I think it is ot outmost importance to ask what you need or you will end stuck for much longer than you should. Same goes for me, I know it in my gut. Some things need to put to rest before I go on. And we need MC as well. I hat ethe idea of another Christmas with no "solid" love, if you get what I mean... K