K4D Rising #4

[K4D]

I agree Esox. Tonight we talked more about D11's birthday. By the way, the evening went great with the girls tonight. D11 got a great dinner, desert, and got to pick out presents for herself. She even picked out a board game and wanted me to play it with her, so I did.

Well, anyways, we are changing the plans for tomorrow for D11's party. We have decided with the cold weather and with D11 having asthmas that flares up in cold weather that we will not do six flags. Instead we will do something inside at a place here.

Ok, so after we agree, W suggests that D11 be able to have a friend or 2 over to spend the night with her tomorrow. D11 is with me. I tell W that yes I have been thinking about that and was going to offer it to D11.

W then tells me that she would be ok with D11 having some friends stay the night tomorrow night with her. Excuse me??? So she says again after another minute that she has no problem with it.
I said ok.

I am thinking here, when did I need my W's permission or approval to allow my daughter to have a friend or 2 stay the night with her AT MY PLACE? Did I miss something here? W proceeds to again tell me she is fine with it if D11 wants to have a friend or 2 stay the night. I feel totally lost here. I did not ask her for her opinion on whether or not D11 can have a friend or 2 stay the night at my place with her tomorrow night. As far as I know, I pay the rent at my place due to W's ridiculous life decisions and as far as I know, she has ABSOLUTELY no say in whether or not my D11 can have a friend stay for the night.

Please tell me if I missed something here. Surely I can't be this stupid. I am totally lost here on this one. D11 has had a friend stay the night before and I never asked my W about her thoughts on the issue or for her permission or anything. Why did she feel the need to repeat her approval of that should I decide to allow D11 the opportunity to do that?

I must be losing my mind. I just cannot make heads or tails out of this one.

Kevin