Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

So, thanks again everybody. However I kind of disagree. Don't get mad! I just feel had I been there then yes I should have said something, but I was not present. I have not been present when he has been parenting for the past two months, why now should I be butting in to his parenting.

Because it's been made clear that he is upsetting your son and shirking his responsibilities as a dad. Do you not want to catch someone who robs your house because you weren't there to see the stuff get stolen?

Anyway, it's up to you.