feel like giving up - talk to me!

[S.T. _I Made It!]

ST - we have both been working on how we talk to each other - that makes the big difference. this is important. glad to hear that, make sure you stick to it for you..even if he isn't...have you noticed if you've fallen back into some old routines? He lost his high paying job yeah and didn't find one for 5 months! but we weren't having any R problems at that time. even if you weren't having any problems, I'm sure this was still affecting him. READ For Women Only. And, did you help him, or keep asking him about getting a job? and/or did he pick a job that isn't as good as the last? maybe he is feeling less than worthy, and he is taking the frustration he has about himself, onto you? a wife or husband is the easiest person to take things out on. How I look doesn't make a whole lot of difference I don't believe I would 99% disagree with this, it's not necessarily about how your body is, or how much you weigh, but how you present yourself. again, read For Women Only. - but I did lose 30 lbs since last year and have kept them off - need to lose some more but look better for sure. If you were needing to lose lbs, that is wonderful! and great on keeping it off! Being healthy is important, physically AND mentally. Which brings me to another question...do you love yourself? Do you like yourself? how do you perceive yourself?

Definately HIM working made things way better...way better. It showed and I actively told him what it meant to me and how I appreciated his efforts....so I just don't get it. Is his top 5LL words of affirmation?

Here we are again...worse than ever with a WAH or WAW...let's see

and G had GREAT advice!!