Hi K, I find that I'm going through the very same emotions you're experiencing. It is natural to go through these stages but I wonder when it will end and things can become more "normal" again. I can relate to your list and realize I need most of those things as well. The fact I haven't gotten them has kept me stuck and I'm having a hard time becoming unstuck. Funny, I'm picking up H (away for 4 days) from the airport on Sunday too.
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