I am holding on to the letter as a possible source of intel. How I was hoping it was one
of those bank letters saying "here's your new PIN. New card to follow" Now that would have been fun!

I think I can gain more intel by intercepting OW mail, rather than tipping my hand.

That's what I'm thinking, anyway, but thx so much for weighing in.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process