Uggh! Now, after the last two years of me being on the short end of the Christmas (and Thanksgiving) holiday stick, xW suddenly wants to renegotiate the parenting schedule since this year calls for her to be essentially out in the cold.

She's basically crying sour grapes over a situation that she and her L came up with. Now she doesn't want to be on the receiving end. She was even attempting to shame me into considering her alternative plan, saying how I decide on that will show just what kind of person I am. That just peeves the sh*t our of me.

But I'm just too freakin' nice. I just offered her a compromise, even though she deserves nothing, considering how heartless she was in '07 and '08.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.