I did a little reading of your situation and have lots of questions. I'll start with this one though, how much longer to you plan on living this way? I hurt for you just reading this.
Thanks for stopping by, E. I haven't put a time limit on it; I just want to be for sure what is the right thing to do. When I married him, I intended it to be forever. Don't know how to put a time limit on fixing it, I guess.
Additional questions welcome.
bim
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127